Drenth INFJs are “old souls.” Many grow up feeling wiser than would be predicted by their chronological age.They tend to feel happiest and most fulfilled when helping and enlightening others through their insights.Later on, Myers said that if she had known about type theory, she probably wouldn't have married Chief. There is a lesson to be learned here: type is not everything, nor should it be the decisive factor in choosing your lifemate. Then too, the connections between type, attraction, love and marriage haven't been well studied yet. Tieger and Barron-Tieger (2000) found that Idealist-Idealist pairings have an average satisfaction rate of 73%--the highest attraction rating for all the NF pairings, and almost the highest possible satisfaction for all pairings. Green = Guardian, Blue = Idealist, Purple = Artisan, and Teal = Rational.(The question is more complicated than you'd think.) You can read about this question and the various attempts to answer it here. As a further note, the Rationals had a higher satisfaction with an NF mate than with any other temperament. Now, it is a mistake to generalize by temperament--it’s frequent that types will go counter-temperament, and temperament is not the definitive factor in explaining type-based behavior most of the time (CITE)--but since we don’t have anything better to go on...I think it's a funny coincidence we were both using the same choice of words.Well you are right, being with or seeing someone is more exclusive than just dating the person, and yes dating a person is just getting to know them to see if you would want to be exclusive with them.INFJs are champions of the oppressed and downtrodden.
Consequently, INFJs often feel they can see people more clearly than those people can see themselves.
Though affable and sympathetic to most, INFJs are selective about their friends.